Suffering. A gentle reminder to self.
Most of our suffering is not happening in the present moment. Suffering lives in the mind. We replay the past - rethinking of the moments we wish we could change, wishing we could take back words spoken, and actions we regret. We worry for the future - imagining pain that hasn't even arrived, worried about future loss or failure or rejection. But this is a gentle reminder to myself - notice the TRUTH: You are not suffering then. You are not suffering later. You are suffering right now - because the mind is traveling away from the present moment. The past no longer exists. The future has not yet arrived. What remains is memory and imagination - both convincing and powerful - and both capable of creating pain that feels real even though there is no danger in the present moment. What is really happening in the present moment? Your body is here now - breathing in and out. Life is unfolding in this moment. This is where God meets us. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. But h...